We had a huge lunch then I kinda fell asleep (and J's mother went off for a nap and according to J his Dad was also asleep). We then had an enormous dinner (and J got fed lots and lots of some sort of meringue and cream and strawberry cake, and some cheesecake too - I don't like either of those coz I'm not keen on cream or creamy textures).
And now we're off out for a drink - and wonder of wonders J's Dad actually asked if we were going to go. Normally it takes forever and a day to persuade him to go anywhere ;)